Two recent articles in the Gainesville Times showed the sharp contrast
between healthy and unhealthy religion. Columnist Joan King discussed the tendency of
religion to dominate and divide. More conservative columnist, Trevor Thomas, gave a good example of this in
his defense of discriminating against gays and lesbians when it comes to
marriage.
Healthy religion is what you get when you practice the main
teachings of Jesus without filtering them through a particular worldview, and
accepting that some words were probably added over the centuries that were not
part of the original. You find similar teachings from Moses, the Buddha and
Mohammed once you dig through all the unhealthy layers that naturally build up
over time.
All healthy religion emphasizes compassion, non-judging and
oneness. Unhealthy religion tends to judge, punish, divide and dominate. It’s
usually to protect some particular interest its leaders are deeply vested in,
or to avoid some cultural change that frightens them. Unfortunately, most
institutional religion is somewhat unhealthy.
Regarding marriage, heterosexual marriage has worked well
for me, not so much because of gender as because my wife and I have learned to
love and forgive each other and become best friends over the past 36 years.
Plain old good luck has also played a role. I see no need to bar others from a
socially valuable institution simply because of gender. Our 50% divorce rate doesn’t seem to be about
gender.
Obviously, gay
marriage has it's challenges as does any marriage, but when in doubt about anything, I would rather
err on the side of love, grace and non-judging than on the side of legalism and
trying to make everyone else be just like me. I think God is bigger than that.
The Bible says everything was good in the beginning. As part
of our evolution toward whatever it is God has pre-destined us for, he allows
us to misuse things and hurt each other. We fear that which is different, and
then we try to dominate it and make it like us. Saint Paul says even that will
ultimately work for our good, even though it hurts. God obviously saw the
genius of evolution long before Darwin did.
Meanwhile, my prayer is for evolution to speed up so we can
finally out grow our childish need to dominate and control everything. Accept
the imperfection in everything, including the Bible, and let God use all the
imperfection, whether it‘s people, religion, science or culture, to evolve us
toward that which heaven symbolizes and points to.
Also, let religion add the one component that explains why
it evolved. That is, resist the tendency to let only the strong survive. Take
care of the weak and unlucky.
Just like in the beginning, it will all be good in the end.
But in a more immediate and personal context, healthy religion can make the
journey easier. Trust the loving God
that religion so imperfectly seeks. As a Christian, don’t force your ideas
about Jesus on others. Just follow him
in your own day to day life.
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